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Clinical psychology helps people make sense of what they carry—stress, relationships, identity, culture, and change. Through research and lived insight, Dr. David Sequeira explores how understanding human behavior can lead to healthier, more meaningful lives.
David Sequeira
The Machismo & Marianismo Tango
Machismo—the male ideal so central to Hispanic culture—is often mirrored by marianismo—the female ideal. This book examines how both shape identity, relationships, and social expectations, and invites readers to reflect on the cultural scripts that influence everyday life.
Meet Dr. David Sequeira
Dr. David Sequeira, a United States citizen since 1975, was born in Nakuru (Kenya), East Africa, and attended high school in Goa, India (old Portuguese colony). His A.A. is from St. Francis de Sales College, Nagpur, and his B.Ph. is from Papal Athenaeum, Poona, both in India.
He went on to earn his S.T.L. licensate in theology at the Catholic University of Fribourg, Switzerland; his M.A. at Loyola Marymount University, Los Angeles; and his Ph.D. in clinical and social psychology at Wright Institute of Los Angeles. He stayed on in Southern California, where he lives and works as a clinical psychologist.
During his time as a missionary in Brazil, Dr. Sequeira observed everyday expressions of machismo—some so normalized they were rarely questioned. That experience became the spark for deeper study and, ultimately, this book.
Discover the Book
Machismo and Marianismo are more than “attitudes”—they’re cultural blueprints. This chapter introduces their roots, how they form, and why they still influence relationships, family roles, and self-worth today.
How these ideals show up in daily life: dating, marriage, parenting, faith, and community expectations—and the quiet pressures they create for both men and women.
A reflective path forward: recognizing inherited scripts, rebuilding healthier dynamics, and choosing identity with clarity—without losing cultural belonging.
Insights from the Author
A short message from Dr. Sequeira on why this book matters—and what he hopes readers take from it.
What Readers Are Saying
The Machismo and Marianismo Tango” by Dr. David Sequeira is informative and thought-provoking. It explains gender roles in Latin American culture and how they shape relationships, personality, and social values. Even as someone new to the topic, I found it engaging and easy to follow—and I appreciated the broader relevance beyond Latin America.
Robin
As someone who grew up in Hispanic culture, this book made a lot of sense to me. I love how the author encourages self-reflection without shaming. The narrative is educational and engaging at the same time—a thoughtful read not only for Latinos, but for anyone curious about culture and identity.
Sol Tyler
A powerful look at cultural balance: machismo and marianismo, and how these “ideals” shape real lives. The author carefully unpacks layers behind the “tough guy” image and the expectations placed on women—connecting the discussion to history, community, relationships, and personal wellbeing.
Robin
The Machismo and Marianismo Tango” by Dr. David Sequeira is informative and thought-provoking. It explains gender roles in Latin American culture and how they shape relationships, personality, and social values. Even as someone new to the topic, I found it engaging and easy to follow—and I appreciated the broader relevance beyond Latin America.
Robin
As someone who grew up in Hispanic culture, this book made a lot of sense to me. I love how the author encourages self-reflection without shaming. The narrative is educational and engaging at the same time—a thoughtful read not only for Latinos, but for anyone curious about culture and identity.
Sol Tyler
A powerful look at cultural balance: machismo and marianismo, and how these “ideals” shape real lives. The author carefully unpacks layers behind the “tough guy” image and the expectations placed on women—connecting the discussion to history, community, relationships, and personal wellbeing.
Robin
The Machismo and Marianismo Tango” by Dr. David Sequeira is informative and thought-provoking. It explains gender roles in Latin American culture and how they shape relationships, personality, and social values. Even as someone new to the topic, I found it engaging and easy to follow—and I appreciated the broader relevance beyond Latin America.
Robin
As someone who grew up in Hispanic culture, this book made a lot of sense to me. I love how the author encourages self-reflection without shaming. The narrative is educational and engaging at the same time—a thoughtful read not only for Latinos, but for anyone curious about culture and identity.
Sol Tyler
A powerful look at cultural balance: machismo and marianismo, and how these “ideals” shape real lives. The author carefully unpacks layers behind the “tough guy” image and the expectations placed on women—connecting the discussion to history, community, relationships, and personal wellbeing.
Robin
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